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The Kingdom of Eternal Night

The Kingdom of Eternal Night

We have another Wordweavers meeting (one of my two writing groups) today and the theme that we have to write a 1000-word story about is "Black." Both reading and writing have long been effective stress management strategies for me, so...
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Hosting Retreats as a Wounded Healer

Hosting Retreats as a Wounded Healer

Summary: The Paradox of Healing Others While Healing Yourself Hosting retreats as a wounded healer isn't just beneficial—it's transformative. For the host, it offers personal growth and professional empowerment, and the profound joy of witnessing transformation. For participants, wounded healers...
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The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown

The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown

An Unconventional Book Review I’ve always believed in lifting other writers up—and one of the ways I do that is by sharing book reviews. I focus on the books that have truly shaped how I live, work, and support people...
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5 Common Time Management Mistakes That Are Secretly Sabotaging Your Peace of Mind

5 Common Time Management Mistakes That Are Secretly Sabotaging Your Peace of Mind

Quick Summary Tackling time management mistakes isn't about squeezing yet more into your already busy day—it's about creating space for what matters. This article explores five critical mistakes that transform productivity systems into stress machines: the multitasking myth, perfectionist planning,...
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Why Understanding Why You’re in the Room is More Important Than Being the Smartest One in It

Why Understanding Why You’re in the Room is More Important Than Being the Smartest One in It

Summary In our achievement-obsessed culture, we're conditioned to believe that being the smartest person in the room equals success. But here's the uncomfortable truth: intelligence without purpose is like a Ferrari without a destination—impressive, but ultimately pointless. Understanding why you're...
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The Great Retreat Debate: Best Retreat- Home or Hotel?

The Great Retreat Debate: Best Retreat- Home or Hotel?

Quick Summary Choosing your best retreat: a hotel/resort retreat or a home-hosted retreat? Hotels offer polished professionalism, extensive amenities, and worry-free logistics, while home retreats provide intimate connections, personalised attention, home-cooked meals, and authentic experiences at a fraction of the...
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Solo Female Travel to southwest France

Solo Female Travel to southwest France

A Woman's Guide to Travelling Confidently to a Camino de Santiago Walking Retreat Quick Summary Solo female travel to a Camino de Santiago walking retreat in Southwest France is easier than you think. This guide shows you exactly how to...
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Your First Solo Travel Adventure: A Woman’s Guide to Travelling the World with Confidence

Your First Solo Travel Adventure: A Woman’s Guide to Travelling the World with Confidence

Quick Summary Solo travel isn't just about seeing new places—it's about discovering who you are when nobody's watching. This guide will help first-time solo female travellers move from fear to freedom, offering practical tips, emotional support, and the confidence-building tools...
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Self-sabotage in Slow Motion

Self-sabotage in Slow Motion

Summary High performance without recovery isn't sustainable—it's self-sabotage in slow motion. This article explores why our obsession with constant productivity is actually undermining our long-term success, health, and happiness. Through the compelling story of Lawrence Edgar, a high-achieving executive who...
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If Exhaustion is your Default Setting…

If Exhaustion is your Default Setting…

That’s not ambition. That’s your body begging for a reboot. Summary We've been sold a lie about exhaustion. Society tells us that bone-deep tiredness is a badge of honour, proof of our dedication and ambition. But what if that isn't...
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The Credibility Gap: Why Are Women Still Taken Less Seriously Than Men?

The Credibility Gap: Why Are Women Still Taken Less Seriously Than Men?

The Credibility Gap - the invisible barriers that persist in our modern world Quick Summary The credibility gap is real: Women's expertise is questioned more frequently than men's, even in fields where they excel Voice and tone matter: Women face...
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Walking as Medicine: What 10 km a Day Does for the your Brain

Walking as Medicine: What 10 km a Day Does for the your Brain

Discover how walking 10–15 km daily transforms your brain and lowers stress. Learn the science-backed benefits of steady outdoor walking. Why the Camino de Santiago in southwest France is an ideal stress reset. Hear stories from retreat participants who reclaimed...
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What Does It Mean to Be Yourself at Work?

What Does It Mean to Be Yourself at Work?

Summary To be yourself at work isn't about showing up in your pyjamas or sharing every personal detail with colleagues. It's about finding the sweet spot between professional competence and authentic expression—bringing your genuine strengths, values, and personality into your...
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In the New ArtificiaI Intelligence Era, Dare We Reveal Our Vulnerability?

In the New ArtificiaI Intelligence Era, Dare We Reveal Our Vulnerability?

The future belongs to those who can integrate human vulnerability with technological power Our imperfections are features, not bugs, in an increasingly automated world The Question That Defines Our Future In a world where artificial intelligence can write poetry, diagnose...
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Can We Be Vulnerable and Invincible At The Same Time?

Can We Be Vulnerable and Invincible At The Same Time?

Key Points: Vulnerability creates deeper connections and trust Society's binary thinking about strength vs. softness limits our potential Embracing both creates a magnetic presence that others are drawn to This integration requires practice, self-awareness, and intentional courage Opening Pandora's box...
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Can You Be Kind and Set Firm Boundaries at the Same Time?

Can You Be Kind and Set Firm Boundaries at the Same Time?

Quick Summary: The Heart of the Matter Kindness without boundaries isn't kindness—it's enabling. True compassion requires the courage to say no when necessary. Firm boundaries aren't walls—they're bridges. They create space for authentic relationships to flourish. Self-compassion is the foundation....
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Are You Ready to Manifest Your Next Chapter?

Are You Ready to Manifest Your Next Chapter?

Time to Stop Settling For Less Than You Deserve Quick Summary: Your Wake-Up Call Settling is a silent dream killer – it masquerades as safety while slowly suffocating your soul Your "next chapter" isn't waiting for perfect conditions – it's...
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Is Travelling Anti-Ageing or Just Expensive Self-Care?

Is Travelling Anti-Ageing or Just Expensive Self-Care?

What 20 Years of Research Reveals Subtitle: The surprising science behind why people who travel regularly test 5-10 years younger than their stay-at-home peers (and it's not what you think) Quick Summary New experiences literally rewire your brain, creating fresh...
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Retreats vs Conferences, Seminars, or Workshops

Retreats vs Conferences, Seminars, or Workshops

The Lost Art of Authentic Retreats The term "retreat" has lost much of its authentic meaning in today's wellness industry. The essence of a retreat is about stepping away—creating distance from your usual surroundings to dive deep into focused personal...
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How Nature, Movement, and Meaning Can Rewire Your Brain for Longevity

How Nature, Movement, and Meaning Can Rewire Your Brain for Longevity

Summary Revolutionary longevity research reveals that three powerful forces—nature immersion, purposeful movement, and meaningful connection—can literally rewire your brain for increased longevity and vitality. This isn't just feel-good wellness advice; it's hard science showing how neuroplasticity allows us to create...
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Stress Warning Signs: 7 Subtle Clues You’re on the Brink of a Crisis (and What to Do About It)

Stress Warning Signs: 7 Subtle Clues You’re on the Brink of a Crisis (and What to Do About It)

Quick Summary Crises don't announce themselves with fanfare—they whisper before they roar. This article reveals seven subtle stress warning signs that indicate you might be approaching a major life upheaval, from chronic exhaustion masquerading as "busyness" to the gradual erosion...
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Retreat Etiquette: Simple Acts of Service

Retreat Etiquette: Simple Acts of Service

True retreat etiquette isn't just about good manners. When participants actively contribute through kitchen help, garden work, and community engagement, they don't just lighten the host's load; they transform their own experience from passive consumption to active engagement. This shift...
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Why Do People Attend Walking Retreats?

Why Do People Attend Walking Retreats?

Slowing Down Is the Ultimate Life Hack Summary Walking retreats offer a powerful antidote to our hyperconnected, sedentary lifestyle by combining mindful movement with intentional solitude or community. People attend these retreats to disconnect from digital overwhelm, reconnect with their...
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What Happens at Transformational Retreats (That Can’t Happen in a Therapist’s Office)

What Happens at Transformational Retreats (That Can’t Happen in a Therapist’s Office)

Summary Transformational retreats offer experiences that therapy sessions simply cannot replicate. While therapists provide crucial mental health support within clinical boundaries, retreats create immersive environments where breakthrough moments emerge through nature, community, ritual, and the raw vulnerability that comes from...
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How Helping Just One Person Can Change Hundreds of Lives (The Ripple Effect of Purpose)

How Helping Just One Person Can Change Hundreds of Lives (The Ripple Effect of Purpose)

"No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted." - Aesop What if I told you that helping just one person could transform hundreds of lives? It sounds like wishful thinking, but science backs it up. This article...
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What to Expect at a Retreat: What Turns Ordinary Retreats Into Life-Changing Experiences?

What to Expect at a Retreat: What Turns Ordinary Retreats Into Life-Changing Experiences?

The counterintuitive secret to getting everything you need from your retreat experience What to expect at a retreat? Your retreat contribution isn't about being the loudest voice or the perfect participant—it's about showing up authentically, creating space for others while...
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How to Keep Your Ducks in a Row When You’re Getting Divorced

How to Keep Your Ducks in a Row When You’re Getting Divorced

Sometimes the best thing you can do is let your ducks waddle wherever they please while you focus on not drowning in the pond. A Tsunami in a Duck Pond Picture this: You wake up one morning thinking you're the...
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Writing Memoir Together

Writing Memoir Together

Most of the women who attend my Writing and Walking the Camino de Santiago retreats are writing a memoir. I've been wondering why? No mind-numbing crime stories? No tales of passionate love? No bone-chilling horror stories? Nope. 90% are in...
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Living Intentionally

Living Intentionally

How can You Live Your Life More Intentionally? The Short Answer: Living intentionally means making conscious choices aligned with your values, regularly pausing to assess what truly matters, and having the courage to say no to what doesn't serve your...
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20 Things I Wish My Retreat Guests Would (or Would Not) Do

20 Things I Wish My Retreat Guests Would (or Would Not) Do

Transform Your Retreat Experience: A Host's Insider Guide to What Works Picture this: You've spent months crafting the perfect retreat experience. Then reality hits like a surprise thunderstorm – someone's using the sacred singing bowl as a cereal dish, another...
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