Savoir Vivre Vignettes
Life Transitions Reveal The True Ikigai Meaning
A Guide to Living with Purpose Through Life Transitions: When Sarah retired, she pictured her days unfolding like a cosy Pinterest board: endless brunches, maybe a vegetable garden, and mastering the fine art of companion planting. But the reality was…well,...
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The Quarter-Life Crisis Survival Guide
12 Weird but Wonderfully Effective Ways to Turn Your Quarter-Life Crisis Into a Quarter-Life Adventure Setting the Scene At 26, Tyler hit what he would later refer to as “The Quarter-Life Catastrophe.” It started late afternoon on a Tuesday, in...
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15 Unique and Unconventional Ideas to Help You Through Life’s Challenges
Introduction Imagine this: you’re in the midst of packing up your life, surrounded by mountains of boxes, immobilised by heart-wrenching memories, when through the window, you see your elderly next-door neighbour struggling to carry her groceries into her house. You...
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15 Creative Ways to Maintain Friendships during Life Transitions
Making Sure Our Friendships Survive Major Life Changes Your friends are your anchors during periods of change. When everything else is in flux – whether it's moving cities, changing careers, starting a new business, or going through a divorce –...
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From Boomers to Gen Z: How Each Generation Tackles Life’s Biggest Transitions
Discover the Surprising Ways Different Generations Cope with Change—and What We Can All Learn from Each Approach The scene: Four friends from different generations are sitting around a table at a coffee shop, catching up on life. Baby Boomer: “You...
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12 Unconventional Ways Travel can Give You A New Lease on Life After a Divorce
Finding Yourself in the Strangest Places Life Quake Series They say travel broadens the mind, but here’s a lesser-known secret: it also closes doors. Yep, the ones that need closing—like the door on a marriage that’s run its course. Forget...
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12 Unconventional Ways of Coping with the Fall-out of Your Divorce
Life Quake Series: Divorce More than 12 actually, because when I researched this some of the proposed solutions made me laugh out loud. This reminded me that humour is a powerful antidote to anguish and getting divorced is one of...
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12 Unconventional Strategies to Help You Survive When You Lose Your Job
Life Quake Series Enraged. Terrified. Adrift. Betrayed. Losing a job isn’t just losing a paycheck; it’s watching a piece of your identity slip away, too. There’s the gut-wrenching sting of rejection, the ever-echoing fear that asks, Was I not good...
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During a Life Transition, use the R.A.I.N. Method to keep your Head above the Water
How to Find Solid Ground during a Life Quake When life throws me in at the deep end — a major change, a sudden shift, an unexpected curveball - or all of these simultaneously - my first thought often is,...
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Purpose-Driven Women are Unstoppable
Focus on what matters most to You Sometimes life feels like an out-of-control carnival - especially to us introverts - lights flashing, crowds pushing, the whole place buzzing with deafening noise. Somehow, you’re supposed to stay balanced, find your way,...
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Now is the Time! Rewrite Your Story During a Life Transition
Reconstruct Your Story, Reconstruct Your Future We are all living in a movie we scripted ourselves. Every setback, every triumph, every “I’m not good enough,” and “this is just the way I am”— we have written into our stories ourselves....
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Sometimes Travel rewinds the clock, sometimes Travel speeds it up
The Anti-Ageing Benefits of Travel Forget the wrinkle creams and kale smoothies. If you really want to stay young, start packing your bags. Travelling isn’t just about sightseeing—it’s a full-on youth serum disguised as an epic adventure. Why jet-setting and...
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Forget FOMO: This is the Introvert’s Guide to Slow, Solo, and Sustainable Travel
Unhurried and Unbothered: The Art of Savouring Every Step Ever come back from a trip feeling like you need a holiday from your holiday? If you’re an introvert, chances are the bustling crowds, the nonstop itinerary, and the pressure to...
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Is Your Life Still Meaningful? Making Sense of Life Transitions
The Search for Meaning During Life Transitions Alright, so here you are—smack in the middle of a life transition. Maybe you’ve just left a job you had thought would be the job of all jobs. Maybe the relationship you’d bet...
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How to Cope with Uncertainty: 12 Solid Strategies for Thriving Through Life Transitions
A Roadmap to Resilience Life transitions, or life quakes, as I like to call them, that mental rollercoaster you didn’t sign up for, but here you are, buckled in, white-knuckling it like you’re on the world’s most terrifying ride. Ah,...
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Are Introverts More Vulnerable to Burnout?
Why Introverts Are More Susceptible to Burnout (and How Self-Awareness Can Help Them Avoid It) Burnout is something more and more of us have to face sooner or later in today’s fast-moving, always-connected world. Especially if we are introverts. As...
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Dramatically Enrich Your Camino de Santiago Walk
Walking Meditation is an essential part of my life-changing Camino de Santiago Walking Retreats. What is Walking Meditation? Walking Meditation can dramatically enhance your experience of walking the Camino de Santiago because it: 1. Makes the Walk More Meaningful The...
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Intensify Your Walking Meditation Practice to Reduce Stress Even More Effectively
For many years, I have been encouraging my Camino de Santiago Walking Retreats guests to practice both walking meditation and breathing meditation, alternatively, while they are walking the Camino. Most of my guests found this hugely beneficial and continued both practices when...
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Upgrade Your Life Skills before You Make A Major Life Change
Imagine this: you've finally mustered the courage to quit the job that’s been slowly suffocating your soul, or you're ready to leave behind a life that no longer feels worth living. The excitement of a fresh start propels you forward—until...
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Your Unique Burnout Recovery Plan: A Step-by-Step Guide
Life transitions and major life changes, like losing your job, starting a business, ending a relationship, relocating to a new country, becoming a parent, coping with the loss of a loved one or an empty nest, retirement, or a significant...
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Overthinking Destoys Creativity
How to Safeguard Your Problem-solving Skills As a writer, I am obsessively protective of my creativity. One of the most dangerous and destructive enemies of creativity is overthinking. Many of us do it without necessarily realising it. Our creativity determines...
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The Unrelenting Rise of Relocation Depression
Acknowledging Our Desperate Need to Belong What Is Relocation Depression? Relocation depression is a type of emotional distress caused by a major life change, that occurs when we move to a new country, often characterised by feelings of sadness, loneliness,...
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How To Avoid Expat Burnout When You Relocate To A New Country to Advance Your Career
The thrill of exploring uncharted territory, soaking up new cultures, and starting fresh is intoxicating—but let’s be real, it can also feel like riding a rollercoaster without a seatbelt. The emotional highs are exhilarating, but the lows? They can knock...
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Starting over after a Major Life Transition: Divorce
How do you start over after a life change as life-shattering as a divorce? By radically reinventing yourself. So you survived the divorce. Gone are the compromises, the silent resentments, and the half-lived dreams. As it fades into the distance...
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Heart-soothing Quotes about Grief
and why they should be part of the Grief Resolution Process "Grieving is a necessary passage and a difficult transition to finally letting go of sorrow - it is not a permanent rest stop." Dodinsky Three years ago I lost...
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12 of the Most Important Life Lessons
What I learned from going through one Life Transition after another I might have mentioned (about a hundred times so far) that I have been through more life transitions than I care to count. Looking back, I decided to review...
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Navigating New Beginnings: 10 Pitfalls to Avoid When Starting a New Chapter in Life
Thinking of starting a new chapter in life? Maybe you feel like you're standing on the edge of a cliff, and you are hesitating to leap into the void. What if something goes wrong? That's what starting a new life...
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How using Your Creativity Can Help You Cope with Life Transitions
The Art of Reinventing Yourself Life transitions are often chaotic, unpredictable, and, frankly, seriously unnerving. In these make-or-break times, feeling stuck in a rut is practically a rite of passage. For many of us, this overwhelming uncertainty leads to stagnation....
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How to Ask For Help during a Life Transition
Learn the key strategies to clearly communicate your needs and build a stronger, more supportive network during life's most challenging transitions. Sick of your job? Tired of your relationship? Sick and tired of life in general feeling like a never-ending...
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How to Build a Support System That Will Sustain You Through Major Life Changes
You don’t have to go through life’s toughest challenges alone. Feeling stuck in a job that drains your energy or struggling to move forward after a relationship ends? The key to thriving through life’s biggest changes isn’t willpower—it’s having the...
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