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The Credibility Gap: Why Are Women Still Taken Less Seriously Than Men?

The Credibility Gap: Why Are Women Still Taken Less Seriously Than Men?

The Credibility Gap - the invisible barriers that persist in our modern world Quick Summary The credibility gap is real: Women's expertise is questioned more frequently than men's, even in fields where they excel Voice and tone matter: Women face...
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Walking as Medicine: What 10 km a Day Does for the your Brain

Walking as Medicine: What 10 km a Day Does for the your Brain

Discover how walking 10–15 km daily transforms your brain and lowers stress. Learn the science-backed benefits of steady outdoor walking. Why the Camino de Santiago in southwest France is an ideal stress reset. Hear stories from retreat participants who reclaimed...
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What Does It Mean to Be Yourself at Work?

What Does It Mean to Be Yourself at Work?

Summary To be yourself at work isn't about showing up in your pyjamas or sharing every personal detail with colleagues. It's about finding the sweet spot between professional competence and authentic expression—bringing your genuine strengths, values, and personality into your...
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In the New ArtificiaI Intelligence Era, Dare We Reveal Our Vulnerability?

In the New ArtificiaI Intelligence Era, Dare We Reveal Our Vulnerability?

The future belongs to those who can integrate human vulnerability with technological power Our imperfections are features, not bugs, in an increasingly automated world The Question That Defines Our Future In a world where artificial intelligence can write poetry, diagnose...
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Can We Be Vulnerable and Invincible At The Same Time?

Can We Be Vulnerable and Invincible At The Same Time?

Key Points: Vulnerability creates deeper connections and trust Society's binary thinking about strength vs. softness limits our potential Embracing both creates a magnetic presence that others are drawn to This integration requires practice, self-awareness, and intentional courage Opening Pandora's box...
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Can You Be Kind and Set Firm Boundaries at the Same Time?

Can You Be Kind and Set Firm Boundaries at the Same Time?

Quick Summary: The Heart of the Matter Kindness without boundaries isn't kindness—it's enabling. True compassion requires the courage to say no when necessary. Firm boundaries aren't walls—they're bridges. They create space for authentic relationships to flourish. Self-compassion is the foundation....
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Are You Ready to Manifest Your Next Chapter?

Are You Ready to Manifest Your Next Chapter?

Time to Stop Settling For Less Than You Deserve Quick Summary: Your Wake-Up Call Settling is a silent dream killer – it masquerades as safety while slowly suffocating your soul Your "next chapter" isn't waiting for perfect conditions – it's...
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Is Travelling Anti-Ageing or Just Expensive Self-Care?

Is Travelling Anti-Ageing or Just Expensive Self-Care?

What 20 Years of Research Reveals Subtitle: The surprising science behind why people who travel regularly test 5-10 years younger than their stay-at-home peers (and it's not what you think) Quick Summary New experiences literally rewire your brain, creating fresh...
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Retreats vs Conferences, Seminars, or Workshops

Retreats vs Conferences, Seminars, or Workshops

The Lost Art of Authentic Retreats The term "retreat" has lost much of its authentic meaning in today's wellness industry. The essence of a retreat is about stepping away—creating distance from your usual surroundings to dive deep into focused personal...
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How Nature, Movement, and Meaning Can Rewire Your Brain for Longevity

How Nature, Movement, and Meaning Can Rewire Your Brain for Longevity

Summary Revolutionary longevity research reveals that three powerful forces—nature immersion, purposeful movement, and meaningful connection—can literally rewire your brain for increased longevity and vitality. This isn't just feel-good wellness advice; it's hard science showing how neuroplasticity allows us to create...
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Stress Warning Signs: 7 Subtle Clues You’re on the Brink of a Crisis (and What to Do About It)

Stress Warning Signs: 7 Subtle Clues You’re on the Brink of a Crisis (and What to Do About It)

Quick Summary Crises don't announce themselves with fanfare—they whisper before they roar. This article reveals seven subtle stress warning signs that indicate you might be approaching a major life upheaval, from chronic exhaustion masquerading as "busyness" to the gradual erosion...
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Retreat Etiquette: Simple Acts of Service

Retreat Etiquette: Simple Acts of Service

True retreat etiquette isn't just about good manners. When participants actively contribute through kitchen help, garden work, and community engagement, they don't just lighten the host's load; they transform their own experience from passive consumption to active engagement. This shift...
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Why Do People Attend Walking Retreats?

Why Do People Attend Walking Retreats?

Slowing Down Is the Ultimate Life Hack Summary Walking retreats offer a powerful antidote to our hyperconnected, sedentary lifestyle by combining mindful movement with intentional solitude or community. People attend these retreats to disconnect from digital overwhelm, reconnect with their...
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What Happens at Transformational Retreats (That Can’t Happen in a Therapist’s Office)

What Happens at Transformational Retreats (That Can’t Happen in a Therapist’s Office)

Summary Transformational retreats offer experiences that therapy sessions simply cannot replicate. While therapists provide crucial mental health support within clinical boundaries, retreats create immersive environments where breakthrough moments emerge through nature, community, ritual, and the raw vulnerability that comes from...
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How Helping Just One Person Can Change Hundreds of Lives (The Ripple Effect of Purpose)

How Helping Just One Person Can Change Hundreds of Lives (The Ripple Effect of Purpose)

"No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted." - Aesop What if I told you that helping just one person could transform hundreds of lives? It sounds like wishful thinking, but science backs it up. This article...
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What to Expect at a Retreat: What Turns Ordinary Retreats Into Life-Changing Experiences?

What to Expect at a Retreat: What Turns Ordinary Retreats Into Life-Changing Experiences?

The counterintuitive secret to getting everything you need from your retreat experience What to expect at a retreat? Your retreat contribution isn't about being the loudest voice or the perfect participant—it's about showing up authentically, creating space for others while...
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How to Keep Your Ducks in a Row When You’re Getting Divorced

How to Keep Your Ducks in a Row When You’re Getting Divorced

Sometimes the best thing you can do is let your ducks waddle wherever they please while you focus on not drowning in the pond. A Tsunami in a Duck Pond Picture this: You wake up one morning thinking you're the...
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Writing Memoir Together

Writing Memoir Together

Most of the women who attend my Writing and Walking the Camino de Santiago retreats are writing a memoir. I've been wondering why? No mind-numbing crime stories? No tales of passionate love? No bone-chilling horror stories? Nope. 90% are in...
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Living Intentionally

Living Intentionally

How can You Live Your Life More Intentionally? The Short Answer: Living intentionally means making conscious choices aligned with your values, regularly pausing to assess what truly matters, and having the courage to say no to what doesn't serve your...
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20 Things I Wish My Retreat Guests Would (or Would Not) Do

20 Things I Wish My Retreat Guests Would (or Would Not) Do

Transform Your Retreat Experience: A Host's Insider Guide to What Works Picture this: You've spent months crafting the perfect retreat experience. Then reality hits like a surprise thunderstorm – someone's using the sacred singing bowl as a cereal dish, another...
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The Scarlet Specter’s Social Hour

The Scarlet Specter’s Social Hour

How Daniela Inherited a Mansion and Accidentally Became Best Friends with a Jazz Age Ghost Who Really Needs to Work on Her Interior Decorating Skills When I inherited Great Aunt Millicent's Victorian mansion, I thought my biggest problem would be...
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Why Boundaries Are Crucially Important During Life Transitions

Why Boundaries Are Crucially Important During Life Transitions

The Truth About Boundaries: Your Questions Answered Boundaries during life transitions are like wearing a life jacket in turbulent waters—they keep you afloat when everything else feels like it's pulling you under. They protect your energy, preserve your sanity, and...
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Anxiety is a SuperPower

Anxiety is a SuperPower

Can It Help Us Cope During Life Transitions? The Short Answer: Anxiety isn't your enemy—it's your internal GPS system recalibrating. When properly understood and channelled, anxiety becomes a powerful ally that heightens your awareness, sharpens your focus, and guides you...
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Self-Awareness: our Superpower during Life Transitions

Self-Awareness: our Superpower during Life Transitions

How can self-awareness help us survive major life changes? The Short Answer: Self-awareness acts as your internal GPS during life transitions, helping you understand your emotions, recognise patterns, make aligned decisions, and transform uncertainty from a threat into an opportunity...
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Self-Awareness vs Mindfulness during Life Transitions

Self-Awareness vs Mindfulness during Life Transitions

"I always get anxious when facing uncertainty, and it usually shows up as overthinking." I asked Claude, "Why are life transitions so disruptive? He replied, "Going through life transitions typically cause: 1. Identity and Purpose Confusion The old sense of...
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The Empty Nesters Advantage: Your Best Years Are Still Ahead of You

The Empty Nesters Advantage: Your Best Years Are Still Ahead of You

How decades of parenting prepared you for the most purposeful and meaningful chapter of your life Question: By the end of the year, we'll be empty nesters. I dread it, I don't know what I will do with myself once...
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You ARE Good Enough

You ARE Good Enough

A Revolutionary Perspective on Life Transitions Here's a truth that might sting a little: You're probably overthinking your life transition. Yes, you – the one who's been good enough to build empires, close million-dollar deals, and navigate corporate politics with...
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What You Give Is What You Get

What You Give Is What You Get

The Wild, Weird and Wonderful Alchemy of Generosity Or: The Goat, the Gucci Bag, and a life-enriching Cappuccino It started, as many seriously strange stories do, with a cappuccino. Picture this: a honey-hued morning in Gascony (the French Tuscany), the...
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They Do Not See You As You Are, They See You As They Are

They Do Not See You As You Are, They See You As They Are

Or: The Mysterious Case of the Billionaire in Birkenstocks It was supposed to be a weekend of quiet reflection. A stealthy “silent success” type—let’s call him Stephan—had recently sold his third AI-adjacent startup for an undisclosed sum that rhymed suspiciously...
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Retirement: Who Am I Now?

Retirement: Who Am I Now?

The Short Answer: You are still the same person you were before your retirement, the one who always gave your all—but now, your time is yours. You get to slow down, speed up, and change course. No deadlines, no rules—just...
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