Stories

Trailblazers’ Stories: not-your-average Blog

Here you’ll find more than 450 full-lenght articles, most 4000 words+, about subjects that would interest people who are navigating huge life changes, challenges and crises and are starting the next chapters in their lives. Most articles feature the story of someone who had to cope with a life-altering crisis. Maybe you’ll find the story of someone who survived the exact same crisis as you are facing? You can use the search function below to find inspiring stories:

Here are the main themes:

1. Retreats – Stress Dissolvers & Direction Finders – The transformative power of retreat experiences for people navigating major life transitions, career pivots, and personal crossroads. Explore how stepping away creates space for clarity, renewal, and intentional next chapters.

2. Horses – Partners in Transformation – How equine-assisted learning can accelerate emotional healing, build self-awareness, and guide stressed professionals toward their next chapter with wisdom that only horses can provide.

3. Navigating Life Changes, Challenges & Crises – Practical strategies and emotional support for weathering life’s storms—from unexpected upheavals to planned transitions. Learn to navigate uncertainty with resilience and emotional adaptability during pivotal life moments.

4. Burnout & Stress Management in Transition – Understanding why life transitions amplify stress and burnout risk. Science-backed approaches to managing acute and chronic stress when you’re already navigating significant personal or professional change.

5. Life Purpose – The Foundation of New Beginnings – Discovering and reconnecting with your deeper purpose during times of change. Explore why clarity of purpose is essential when reinventing your life, career, or identity.

6. Emotional Intelligence, Empathy, Self-Awareness & Mindfulness – Developing the inner resources that make transitions smoother. Cultivate emotional maturity, self-compassion, and mindful practices that support you through life’s most challenging passages.

7. Reinvention and Reconstruction after a Major Life Change – Navigate relationship shifts, empty nests, health scares, career pivots, redundancies, retirement, relocation, professional success without fulfillment, and find clarity for your next chapter.

8. Grief, Loss & Legacy – Honouring what’s been lost while creating meaningful legacy. Process grief from death, relationship endings, or life chapter closures, and discover how loss can transform into purposeful living.

9. Nature, Sustainability & Slow and Solo Travel – Reconnecting with natural rhythms as an antidote to modern overwhelm. Embrace sustainable, intentional living that supports well-being during life transitions and beyond.

10. Writing, Reading & Storytelling – How words heal and transform during major life changes. Explore writing your story, reading for solace and inspiration, book reviews, and storytelling circles as powerful tools for processing transition.

Harnessing the Power of Quotes to Navigate Major Life Changes

Harnessing the Power of Quotes to Navigate Major Life Changes

I have always been a quote collector. I used to store my collection on a USB stick (luckily, these sticks managed to store more and more data, as my collection dramatically increased, over the years.) I often use quotes in...
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Starting a business as an Introvert and an Empath

Starting a business as an Introvert and an Empath

Understanding the Unique Challenges Recently, I read that "starting a business is a daunting task for anyone, but for introverts who are also empaths, it can feel impossible. The unique combination of introvert and empath in one mind, presents a...
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The Essential Traits of a Transformational Retreat Host

The Essential Traits of a Transformational Retreat Host

Mastering the Art of Hosting Transformational Retreats: Combining Personal Insight, Professional Skills, and Practical Abilities Sometimes, as retreat hosts and leaders, we often get lost in the details of everything we want to share with our guests. We know we...
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If You Want to Stress Less, Find Your Life Purpose

If You Want to Stress Less, Find Your Life Purpose

“The great and glorious masterpiece of man is to live with purpose.” - Michel de Montaigne Make Finding Your Life Purpose a Priority Knowing my purpose in life, during the various stages of my career, and especially during major career changes...
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Introverts and Empaths Grieve Differently

Introverts and Empaths Grieve Differently

How to Stay Strong When You Lose a Loved One My mission is to help people through life challenges and transitions, like divorces, empty nests, voluntary and involuntary career changes, redundancies, losing loved ones etc. My beautiful Barzoi, Arcady Nikolai,...
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Camino de Santiago Walking Retreat: Essential Tips for Preparation, Participation, and Post-Retreat Integration

Camino de Santiago Walking Retreat: Essential Tips for Preparation, Participation, and Post-Retreat Integration

What can I, as a guest do to ensure that my retreat is transformational - before, during and after my retreat? You have finally decided that if you don't take a break now, you will end up so burnt out...
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You Have the Courage to Begin Again

You Have the Courage to Begin Again

Take a Deep Breath. Pick Yourself Up, Dust Yourself Off and Start Again. Life has a way of throwing curveballs that can knock us off course, whether it's a career setback, a relationship ending, or a personal loss. In those...
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Lost Your Way? The Benefits of Walking the Camino de Santiago Retreats During Major Life Challenges

Lost Your Way? The Benefits of Walking the Camino de Santiago Retreats During Major Life Challenges

Hesitating at the Crossroads: A New Beginning Picture this: You're standing at the edge of a dense forest, the path behind you swallowed by mist, and the road ahead twisting into who-knows-where. Life can feel like that sometimes—especially when you're...
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Understanding Mother Hunger: Identifying, Addressing, and Nurturing Your Emotional Needs

Understanding Mother Hunger: Identifying, Addressing, and Nurturing Your Emotional Needs

Mother Hunger: Walking the Camino de Santiago de Compostela can provide Answers to your Questions A couple of my retreat guests this year, who came to my little farm here in the southwest of France, primarily to walk the Camino...
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I Want to Make a Success of my Career or Business, What Should My Morning Routine Look Like?

I Want to Make a Success of my Career or Business, What Should My Morning Routine Look Like?

I have always been a morning person, so I was not too seriously inconvenienced, in my fifties, when I had to start over and create the mother-of-all morning routine to help me manifest the life I wanted to live, from...
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No Matter How Much of an Introvert You Are, You Can Be a Successful Business Owner

No Matter How Much of an Introvert You Are, You Can Be a Successful Business Owner

Harness Your Unique Strengths to Build a Thriving Business In a world that often glorifies the extroverted hustle, it’s easy for introverts to feel overshadowed. Networking events, public speaking, and constant social interactions can seem like insurmountable hurdles. However, being...
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Life Lessons from a Penniless Pâtissière

Life Lessons from a Penniless Pâtissière

How Cupcakes and a Houseplant (called Fred) Helped One Woman Conquer Imposter Syndrome Life's most profound lessons often come at inconvenient times and from unexpected sources. As we work our way through crises, challenges and changes, we encounter experiences that...
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Is It More Difficult to Start a Business as an Extrovert or an Introvert?

Is It More Difficult to Start a Business as an Extrovert or an Introvert?

Or As Neither of the above? As a business owner, it can be useful to know if you are an extrovert or an introvert, as each category has its own strengths and weaknesses. Extroverts and introverts approach the starting and...
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The Entrepreneur’s Guide to Nature’s Stress Management Strategies

The Entrepreneur’s Guide to Nature’s Stress Management Strategies

Discover How Nature Can Save Your Sanity (and Your Startup) "Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass under trees on a summer’s day, listening to the murmur of the water, or watching the clouds float across...
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The Entrepreneur’s Guide to Mental Gymnastics

The Entrepreneur’s Guide to Mental Gymnastics

Flipping Fears and Leaping Over Obstacles with a Growth Mindset - How Cultivating a Growth Mindset Can Propel Your Business Forward Running a business is no walk in the park, no matter how long you have been in the running....
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The RAS (Reticular Activating System) Advantage

The RAS (Reticular Activating System) Advantage

Leveraging Your Brain's Filtering System for Career Success The Reticular Activating System (RAS) can play a crucial role in advancing your career by enhancing focus, awareness, problem-solving and decision-making. Ever since I was a young doctor working in an extremely...
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Rest: The Essential (but Often Missing) Ingredient in Your Self-Care Recipe

Rest: The Essential (but Often Missing) Ingredient in Your Self-Care Recipe

Ever wonder why you feel more irritable and less productive despite working harder? On the point of collapsing from exhaustion, I realised something crucial: my relentless pursuit of success was costing me my health. I discovered that rest, quality as...
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Mindfulness: A Solution for Imposter Syndrome

Mindfulness: A Solution for Imposter Syndrome

From Self-Doubt to Self-Confidence Imagine standing on the precipice of a significant career milestone, your achievements lauded by your peers, when suddenly, an insidious voice whispers, "You're a fraud." This is the haunting reality of many people with imposter syndrome,...
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Mindfulness for Introverts: Finding Calm in a Chaotic World

Mindfulness for Introverts: Finding Calm in a Chaotic World

How Introverts Can Benefit from Adjusted Mindfulness Techniques If you are an introvert, you might find it difficult to master mindfulness. Mindfulness is a powerful practice that can offer significant benefits, but introverts may face unique difficulties when trying to...
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An Introvert’s Guide to Coping with a Major Life Crisis

An Introvert’s Guide to Coping with a Major Life Crisis

. Picture this: a serene lakeside cabin, nestled deep in the woods, where the only sounds are the whisper of the wind through the trees and the gentle ripple of water over cobbles. For an introvert, this is paradise. Now,...
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How to order a Hamburger in France

How to order a Hamburger in France

. Every Tuesday evening, my Camino de Santiago retreat guests and I go to a local bistro to support the still-flagging local economy, post-Covid. Most of the options on the menu include duck, in some form or another, but the...
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Creating Financial Independence during a Life Transition

Creating Financial Independence during a Life Transition

Strategies for Women Rebuilding Their Lives During Major Life Events I felt a bit of a fraud when I started writing this article. Who am I to give others advice about financial independence? I was going through a major life...
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A New Definition of Success: Finding Fulfillment in Life Transitions

A New Definition of Success: Finding Fulfillment in Life Transitions

Did you know that nearly half of successful people reconsider their career paths after a major life event? In an age of transformation, discover how personal stories of triumph over adversity are reshaping our understanding of true achievement. As you...
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Getting Motivated to Declutter During Life Transitions

Getting Motivated to Declutter During Life Transitions

Coping with Life Changes, Challenges and Transitions Series Theresa stood in the middle of her living room, surrounded by piles of paperwork from years gone by, dusty stacks of old newspapers and magazines, bulging boxes of "fat" clothes and "thin"...
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Time For Change

Time For Change

I want to start this email by thanking all those wonderful people who have written to me after my last email: I can’t tell you how heartwarming it was to receive your encouraging responses. The consensus was: "You do You."...
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Manifestation Journal Prompts

Manifestation Journal Prompts

Having experimented with the Law of Attraction and having been thoroughly disillusioned more than a decade ago, I have had little time for the idea ever since. Recently, a friend mentioned Human Design, and knowing nothing about it, I decided...
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Retreat to a Refuge and Discover Your Sanctuary Away from Home

Retreat to a Refuge and Discover Your Sanctuary Away from Home

Relax, Rejuvenate, and Rediscover Yourself at a Sanctuary in the foothills of the Pyrenées Mountains A retreat should be a refuge: somewhere you can escape to, a place where you feel safe, seen and heard. I mentioned that I run...
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Vintage Escapes: The Irresistible Allure of Retro Retreats

Vintage Escapes: The Irresistible Allure of Retro Retreats

Experience Vintage Charm with Modern Comforts I host old-fashioned retreats. An old-fashioned retreat is one with a rustic charm reminiscent of a bygone era, where guests can escape the modern world's fast pace and engage in traditional activities like nature...
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Why a Private Wellness Retreat Might Be the Plot Twist Your Life Story Needs

Why a Private Wellness Retreat Might Be the Plot Twist Your Life Story Needs

How Private Retreats Can Revolutionise Your Well-being I have been hosting small group Camino de Santiago hiking retreats for more than a decade, here at my house in the southwest of France. Last week, I came across this post in...
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Why You Shouldn’t Fake it till you make it

Why You Shouldn’t Fake it till you make it

Don't Fake It Until You Make It, Face It Until You Make It The Case for Authenticity in Leadership and Life What this is: A compassionate dismantling of the most overused advice in business, written by someone who learned the...
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