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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 20

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Theme: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships


Embracing Quiet Moments Together

In a season often marked by busy schedules and loud celebrations, there’s something beautifully grounding about quiet moments shared with a friend. Sometimes, the best connections don’t need words.

Think about a peaceful winter evening spent with a friend, sipping tea, watching snow fall, or simply sitting in the comfort of each other’s presence. These moments remind us that being there for someone doesn’t always require action or advice—it’s enough just to share the space.

Quiet moments create a kind of magic. They allow us to recharge while reinforcing the bond we share with another person. This holiday season, make time for the quiet connections that truly matter.

Journaling Prompt: Think of a friend who brings you peace. How can you spend quiet, meaningful time with them this holiday season?

Action Step: Invite a friend to share a simple, quiet moment with you. Whether it’s an online chat or a relaxed evening in, let the focus be on just being present together.

Interactive Comment: Appreciate the power of quiet? Comment with “Peaceful moments matter!”

Would you like to find out what type of friend YOU are? How well do you know your friends? If you and a new friend really are compatible? I have created a set of light-hearted quizzes, quotes and questions to help you do just that. Just fill in the form below and you’ll get immediate access to them all. I’ll also add you to my newsletter list, though you can unsubscribe from this list effortlessly and at any time.

Included:

– How well do you know your Friends? Quiz

– What is Your Friendship Style? and Are your Friendship Styles compatible? Quiz

– 20 of the Most Inspiring Friends and Friendship Quotes and

– 20 lighthearted Questions you can ask to get to know a new Friend

I put the essence of who I am, and everything I have experienced that makes me who I am, with great enthusiasm, into my retreats, courses and books. – Dr Margaretha Montagu (MBChB, MRCGP, NLP master pract (cert,) Transformational Life Coach (dip,) Life Story Coach (cert) Counselling (cert,) Med Hypnotherapy (dip) and EAGALA (cert)

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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 21

Theme: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships

Gratitude Strengthens Bonds

Friendships are like gardens—they flourish with care and attention. And one of the simplest yet most powerful ways to nurture them is through gratitude. Think about the friends who have supported you this year. Did someone listen to you when you needed to vent? Offer advice that shifted your perspective? Simply sit with you in your silence? These acts of kindness, no matter how small, deserve acknowledgement. Gratitude doesn’t just make others feel appreciated—it also deepens your own sense of connection. It shifts your focus from what’s missing to what’s present and valuable in your life. This Christmas, let your gratitude become a bridge that strengthens your friendships.

Journaling Prompt: Write down three things you appreciate about a close friend. How might you express that appreciation to them this week?

Action Step: Choose one friend and send them a message of thanks today. Be specific about what you value in them—it will make your words even more meaningful.

Interactive Comment: Gratitude opens hearts. Comment with “I’m thankful!” if you’re ready to spread appreciation.

Would you like to find out what type of friend YOU are? How well do you know your friends? If you and a new friend really are compatible? I have created a set of light-hearted quizzes, quotes and questions to help you do just that. Just fill in the form below and you’ll get immediate access to them all. I’ll also add you to my newsletter list, though you can unsubscribe from this list effortlessly and at any time.

Included:

– How well do you know your Friends? Quiz

– What is Your Friendship Style? and Are your Friendship Styles compatible? Quiz

– 20 of the Most Inspiring Friends and Friendship Quotes and

– 20 lighthearted Questions you can ask to get to know a new Friend

Author Bio: Dr Margaretha Montagu – described as a “game changer”, “gifted healer”, “guiding light” and “life-enriching author” – is an experienced medical doctor, a certified NLP practitioner, a medical hypnotherapist, an equine-assisted psychotherapist (EAGALAcertified) and a transformational retreat leader who guides her clients through life transitions – virtually, or with the assistance of her Friesian and Falabella horses, at their home in the southwest of France.

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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 22

Nurturing New Friendships

The thought of building new friendships during a life transition can be intimidating. But this season of warmth and connection offers the perfect backdrop to meet new people who might bring unexpected joy into your life.

Christmas events, community gatherings, or even online spaces are filled with opportunities to connect. Remember, every friendship starts with a simple introduction. The barista you see every morning, the neighbor you exchange nods with, or someone in your extended social circle could become a meaningful connection if you’re open to the possibility.

New friendships are a reminder that life always offers fresh beginnings, even during times of change. You don’t have to navigate transitions alone—there are people out there ready to walk alongside you.

Journaling Prompt: What qualities do you value most in a friend? How can you show those qualities to others as you meet new people?

Action Step: Introduce yourself to someone new today. It could be as simple as a smile or a short conversation. Small beginnings can lead to big friendships.

Interactive Comment: Taking the first step is brave! Comment with “Here’s to new friends!” if you’re ready to try.

Would you like to find out what type of friend YOU are? How well do you know your friends? If you and a new friend really are compatible? I have created a set of light-hearted quizzes, quotes and questions to help you do just that. Just fill in the form below and you’ll get immediate access to them all. I’ll also add you to my newsletter list, though you can unsubscribe from this list effortlessly and at any time. Included:

  • How well do you know your Friends? Quiz
  • What is Your Friendship Style? and Are your Friendship Styles compatible? Quiz
  • 20 of the Most Inspiring Friends and Friendship Quotes and
  • 20 lighthearted Questions you can ask to get to know a new Friend

If you would like to get access to these quizzes, quotes, insights and inspiration, please fill in the form below:

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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 23

Reaching Out Without Fear

Life transitions can feel isolating, especially during the holiday season when everything seems to revolve around joy and togetherness. But even in the darkest times, we don’t have to face challenges alone. True friends want to support us; they just need to know we’re open to receiving their help.

Reaching out can feel daunting. What if they don’t understand? What if they think you’re being too much? These fears are normal, but they’re often unfounded. Vulnerability is a bridge that connects hearts. By opening up, you not only lighten your own burden but also give your friend permission to do the same.

Take a moment to reflect on who you trust. Then, take the first step, however small it feels. A simple “I’m having a tough time” can lead to deeper conversations and a stronger bond.

Journaling Prompt: What’s one thing you’ve been holding back from sharing with a friend? Why? How might they respond if you trusted them with it?

Action Step: Choose a friend and share something about your life transition. It doesn’t have to be heavy; even a small glimpse into your feelings can invite connection.

Interactive Comment: Ready to let someone in? Comment with “I’m reaching out!”

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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 24

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A Season for Connection

The holiday season is here, and for many, it can feel bittersweet—especially if you’re navigating a major life transition. Christmas often brings reminders of what has changed, but it also offers an opportunity to embrace something new: meaningful connections with the people who matter most.

Friendship is a gift we often overlook. This season, let’s focus on fostering connection and finding comfort in the bonds we share with others. Take a moment today to reflect on the friends in your life—past, present, or even those you wish to reconnect with.

Journaling Prompt: Who has been a source of support in your life this year? How can you show them gratitude during the holidays?

Action Step: Reach out to one friend today. It could be a simple message, a phone call, or even a handwritten card. Let them know you’re thinking of them.

Interactive Comment: If you’re ready to embrace the gift of friendship this season, comment in your journal “I commit!”

Every day, we’ll explore a new way to deepen friendships, lean on others, and bring warmth to this holiday season. You are not alone on this journey. Let’s make this Christmas Countdown one to remember.

Making friends and maintaining friendships can be complicated. Would you like to find out what type of friend YOU are? How well do you know your friends? If you and a new friend really are compatible? I have created a set of light-hearted quizzes to help you do just that. Just fill in the form below and you’ll get immediate access to all of them. I’ll also add you to my newsletter list, though you can unsubscribe from this list effortlessly and at any time. Included:

  • How well do you know your Friends? Quiz
  • What is your Friendship Style? and Are your Friendship Styles compatible? Quiz
  • 20 of the Most Inspiring Friends and Friendship Quotes and
  • 20 lighthearted Questions you can ask to get to know a new Friend

If you would like to get access to these quizzes, quotes, insights and inspiration, please fill in the form below:

Christmas 2024 Countdown Calendar Journal – coming soon!

I put the essence of who I am, and everything I have experienced that makes me who I am, with great enthusiasm, into my retreats, courses and books. – Dr Margaretha Montagu (MBChB, MRCGP, NLP master pract (cert,) Transformational Life Coach (dip,) Life Story Coach (cert) Counselling (cert,) Med Hypnotherapy (dip) and EAGALA (cert)

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