The Camino Chronicles: A 7-Day Storytelling Series

Two Souls, One Path: Sophie and Armand’s Life-changing Adventure in the Southwest of France

More and more, I find myself using storytelling as a medium to pass on insights, probably not altogether surprising as my first love, even after 8 books, remains writing. Today I embark on a 7-part story, the Camino Chronicles, that I hope will be as thought-provoking as it is entertaining.

Day 1: Surviving a Storm in the Southwest of France

At 52, Sophie Marelli discovered that losing everything might be the best thing that ever happened to her – but first, she had to survive the storm.

When Life Forces You Off the Beaten Path

Society tells us that 45+ is the time to settle down, play it safe, and prepare for decline. We’re supposed to accept smaller dreams, lower expectations, and the gentle slide toward irrelevance. But what if this conventional wisdom is not just wrong – what if it’s dangerous?

What if this is exactly when we need to set off on our wildest adventures?

Today begins the story of two strangers who discovered that the path to renewal doesn’t run through a boardroom or therapist’s office – it winds through the ancient routes of the Camino de Santiago. Their journey will challenge everything you think you know about starting over, about courage, and about what’s possible when you’re brave enough to let your old life fall apart so a new one can begin.

When Everything Falls Apart

Dawn seeped into the narrow streets of Eauze, softening the edges of the ancient stones. Sophie Marelli stood in the shadow of the cathedral, the straps of her backpack cinched so tightly that her shoulders ached—a familiar ache, though, until now it had always been hidden. She had spent decades carrying the weight of expectations, mostly other people’s, mostly without complaint. But this—this was different. This had teeth.

The medieval stones beneath her boots gleamed wet with morning dew, slick and treacherous underfoot. Somewhere behind her, a boulangerie’s warm, yeasty exhale curled through the air, brushing her cheek like a memory that wasn’t hers. The scent awakened something inside her—hunger, yes, but not for bread.

Six months ago, she was a woman of sharp heels and sharper schedules, a marketing executive with a view over Lyon’s skyline and a marriage polished to perfection, if only on Instagram. Now, standing on this sacred path, she was jobless, divorced, and about to walk forty kilometres across the ribs of rural France with a group of strangers with whom she had nothing in common.

The irony bit deep: she’d spent a career selling curated adventures to people craving escape while she herself desperately clung to safety. And now, at fifty-two, stripped bare of the scaffolding she’d spent years constructing, she was finally stepping into the unknown.

Across the worn square, Armand Novel adjusted the straps of his backpack for the third time in as many minutes. He wasn’t looking at her—not directly—but he was watching in the way of someone who understood the weight she carried because he’d felt it too. He recognised that brittle exhaustion, that pulse of panic at the edge of one’s consciousness. He’d worn that expression like a mask these past two years, since retirement had morphed quietly from reward to life (what’s left of it) sentence.

At fifty-eight, the man who once sent machines into the sky now struggled to lift his own feet off the ground.

The guide—a wiry woman with silver-threaded hair and a sun-cracked face that spoke of storms weathered and survived—clapped her hands to gather the group. Her voice was sandpaper over stone, rough but steady.

“The Camino doesn’t care about your title, your bank account, your expectations, your regrets. It only cares about one thing—whether you are strong and courageous enough to keep walking when everything hurts.”

The words settled in Sophie’s chest like stones dropped in deep water. She had built her life on controlled outcomes and calculated risks. She wasn’t here to suffer. She was here to outwalk the ache, wasn’t she?

But something inside her-a shattering, shaking thing-knew the truth: she’d come to exorcise it.

The group moved off, the medieval streets unfurling ahead like the pages of a well-thumbed book. Pairs formed easily, chatter bubbling around her, but Sophie kept herself to herself, to the middle, neither part of the noise nor fully alone. Her boots—sleek, expensive, and impossibly ill-suited—slipped on the uneven stones, each step reminding her that no amount of research or online reviews could prepare her for the blistering honesty of this trail.

She stumbled. Of course she stumbled.

A hand caught her elbow, steady and firm. Heat radiated from his palm to her skin, a simple contact that sliced through her composure.

“Careful there.” Armand’s voice was a little rough, as though it had been unused for too long. When she looked up, she found eyes not of a man amused or inconvenienced, but one quietly offering understanding. No judgment. No expectation.

“Thank you,” she managed, but the words snagged in her throat. She blinked rapidly, unwilling to let tears—stupid, ambushing tears—fall for something as simple as kindness.

But it wasn’t simple, was it? Not when life had been so complicated for so long.

The first kilometres were brutal, but not in the grand, cinematic way she’d imagined. The boots she’d bought after precisely thirty-two minutes of online comparison now gnawed at her heels like scavengers. Somewhere between kilometre six and seven, she realised that the marketing team who’d sold her on their “perfect fit for the modern adventurer” had almost certainly never met an adventurer. Or a foot.

Armand limped beside her, waging his own battle. His knees, mute for years behind a desk, had apparently found their voices and were shouting obscenities in some forgotten dialect of pain. The countryside opened around them in slow, spectacular sweeps—vineyards rippling under a September sky so wide and blue it seemed almost impossible that it could be real.

At their first rest stop, Sophie collapsed onto a low stone wall, her body humming with unfamiliar exhaustion.

“I used to love mornings like this,” she said, breath still ragged. “Before everything became about urgent emails and someone else’s overbooked calendar.”

Armand followed her gaze skyward, to where a hawk carved lazy spirals into the blue. “I built machines to own the sky. Spent thirty years making wings. Funny—I can’t remember the last time I actually watched something fly.”

His voice was rough-edged but quiet, like he was still getting used to speaking aloud the things that mattered.

She blurted the question before she could shape it gently. “Why are we doing this? Really? We could be home, sipping long, cool drinks, with unblistered noses and feet.”

His answer didn’t come quickly. He seemed to taste the weight of the words before voicing them.

“Because comfort isn’t living. We’ve tried that. Maybe we’re here because safety started to feel like a kind of… slow death.”

The truth of it punched the breath from her chest.

She picked at the stitching on her water bottle strap, throat tight. “I thought I was falling apart. Divorce. Job gone. Sister telling me to pull myself together like I’m just missing a few puzzle pieces.”

Armand’s mouth quirked, not quite a smile. “Maybe you are trying to build the puzzle with the wrong pieces. Or maybe the old pieces don’t fit together anymore?”

The words hung between them, reverent, as if the air itself was holding its breath.

She hadn’t thought of it like that. Not really. She’d been fighting to put the old life back together with frantic, bruised hands and heart when maybe—maybe—it wasn’t broken. Maybe it was redundant.

The Camino wove through gold-stitched fields and sleepy hamlets, where the clink of church bells and the scent of woodsmoke replaced the buzz of urgent phones. They walked mostly in silence after that, but it was a kind silence, the kind that settles when two people suddenly feel less alone.

By the time they reached the night’s simple lodgings, Sophie’s feet throbbed in angry bursts, and her shoulders had formed a quiet conspiracy against her. But beneath the ache was something unfamiliar and precious—a pulse of life she’d thought she’d buried under spreadsheets and glossy magazine spreads.

She liked Armand. His quiet steadiness. His questions that didn’t feel like tests. And she trusted him, which surprised her, after months of trusting no one, especially not herself.

As they unpacked, laughing with the others about blistered toes and the secret betrayals of supposedly ergonomic gear, Armand’s backpack spilt open.

Sophie bent to help, her fingers brushing against something unexpected, creased and worn, tucked inside a leather pouch.

She froze.

This man, the one she’d just begun to trust, wasn’t the man she thought he was.

Your Turn to Reflect

What storm are you currently weathering in your life? Instead of asking “Why me?” write about what this storm might be preparing you for. What old structures in your life need to be torn down so something new can grow?

Take fifteen minutes to write freely about your current challenges. Don’t censor yourself, don’t try to find solutions – just acknowledge the storm and explore what it might be clearing away to make room for what comes next.

“We must walk consciously only part way toward our goal, and then leap in the dark to our success.” – Henry David Thoreau

Five Truths About Surviving Life’s Storms

  1. Life’s storms often arrive to clear the path for us to grow – What feels like destruction might be preparation. The job loss that leads to the dream career, the divorce that leads to authentic love, the health scare that leads to real vitality.
  2. Society’s timeline for when we should seek adventure might be completely wrong – We’re told to take risks when we’re young and play it safe when we’re older. But it’s precisely when we have experience, wisdom, and nothing left to lose that we’re best equipped for real adventure.
  3. Physical challenges can break open emotional breakthroughs – There’s something about pushing our bodies beyond comfort that cracks open emotional armour we didn’t even know we were wearing. The Camino forces honesty in ways that therapy sometimes can’t.
  4. Sometimes we need to lose everything to find ourselves. Our identities become so tied to external circumstances that we forget who we are underneath. Crisis strips away the non-essential and reveals what’s truly important.
  5. The journey of a thousand miles begins with one wobbly step – You don’t need to have it all figured out to begin. You just need to be willing to put one foot in front of the other, even when you’re not sure where you’re going.

The Revelation

Sophie and Armand’s first day reveals a truth our culture desperately wants to hide: disruption after 45 isn’t a failure – it’s an invitation. While society pushes us toward safety and predictability, our souls crave challenge and growth. The Camino strips away pretence and forces us to confront who we are when everything we thought defined us is gone.

This is why so many people find themselves called to dramatic change in their middle years. It’s not a crisis – it’s an awakening. The comfortable life that once felt like success starts to feel like a prison. The safe choices that once seemed wise start to feel like cowardice. The voice that whispers “there has to be more than this” gets louder until we finally have to listen.

Sophie’s storm – divorce, job loss, the complete dismantling of her carefully constructed life – isn’t punishment. It’s preparation. Every challenge she’s facing is developing muscles she’ll need for what comes next. Every loss is making space for something better. Every step on this ancient path is teaching her to trust herself in ways she never has before.

When we’re in the middle of our storms, it’s hard to see them as anything but devastating. But Sophie is beginning to understand what countless pilgrims before her have discovered: sometimes you have to lose your way completely before you can find your true path.

The question isn’t whether you’ll face storms in your life – you will. The question is whether you’ll have the courage to see them as the beginning of your adventure rather than the end of your story.

Sophie is learning what I’ve discovered through working with hundreds of people navigating major life changes: storms are not punishments to endure but classrooms to graduate from. When divorce papers arrive, when the job disappears, when the kids leave home, when health scares hit – these aren’t signs that life is over. They’re invitations to reconstruct.

This is exactly why I developed the Survive the Storm Protocol. Not because I’m some guru who never faces challenges (trust me, I’ve had my share of spectacular life implosions), but because I’ve walked through enough storms to know they all have the same secret: they’re not trying to destroy you, they’re trying to liberate you.

Tomorrow, we’ll discover what Sophie found in Armand’s backpack and how a simple object can change everything we think we know about the person walking beside us. But today, the lesson is this: your storm isn’t your ending. It’s your beginning.

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What happens when Sophie confronts Armand about his secret? Find out in the next instalment, “The Compass That Points Inward” – where a hidden object reveals that the most important directions aren’t the ones that lead us to new places, but the ones that lead us home to ourselves.

In a world that feels increasingly unstable — politically, economically, emotionally — what will you do when the rug is pulled out from under you? That’s why I created Survive the Storm — a 7-part online course designed to be a lifeline during a life quake. This is your personal survival toolkit for uncertain times — lovingly crafted and packed with practical tools, emotional support, and soul-nourishing insights to help you stay grounded, resilient, and resourceful when everything around you feels like it’s falling apart. Enrol in How to Survive the Storm Protocol, with or without additional mentoring.

I put the essence of who I am, and everything I have experienced that makes me who I am, with great enthusiasm, into my retreats, courses and books. – Dr Margaretha Montagu (MBChB, MRCGP, NLP master pract (cert,) Transformational Life Coach (dip,) Life Story Coach (cert) Counselling (cert,) Med Hypnotherapy (dip) and EAGALA (cert)

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