Savoir Vivre Vignettes
The Comparison Olympics
Why You Always Feel Like You're Losing Introduction: Welcome to the Comparison Games Picture this: You've finally dragged yourself to the gym after what can only be described as an Olympic-level procrastination event. You're sipping a homemade smoothie that tastes...
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Self-Talk: Building Yourself Up or Breaking Yourself Down?
Every thought is like a seed that you plant. Some seeds grow into beautiful, vibrant flowers, while others might turn into stubborn weeds. Dr Margaretha Montagu Recently, I have had a quote about self-talk on my mind—one that might just...
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Join the Radical Renaissance Revolution
Isn't it Time to Start Living in Alignment with Who You Are Now? Why Join the Radical Renaissance Revolution? Because you are ready for more than just survival—you are ready for reinvention, a fresh start, a next chapter and a...
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Radical Gratitude as an Antidote to the Current Turmoil
Your Secret Weapon What if I told you that gratitude might just be the most radical act of rebellion in today’s chaotic world? In an age where doomscrolling is a national pastime and bad news arrives faster than your Amazon...
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‘Think Big’ Is Bad Advice
How Hyper-Successful People Use Micro-Manifestation The Myth of “Thinking Big” What if I told you that think big!—that beloved, motivational, plastered-on-vision-boards-everywhere mantra—is actually stopping you from achieving massive success? That your well-intentioned grand dreams might be the very thing keeping...
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Does Walking Make You More Creative (and Better at Problem-Solving)?
Introduction Time and again, I have witnessed something remarkable during my Camino de Santiago walking retreats. Guests often arrive with their minds weighed down by worries, personal dilemmas, or creative struggles. Yet, as they take each step along the Camino,...
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How Strategic Touchpoints Can Transform Your Personal and Professional Relationships
“The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives.” — Tony Robbins Introduction Most people unknowingly let their relationships erode. Not in a dramatic, ghosting-your-best-friend kind of way. No, it’s more subtle than...
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The Rising Demand for Small Group Retreats
Introduction In today’s fast-paced, hyper-connected world, many people are rediscovering the value of slowing down and seeking more authentic experiences. As global tourism shifts from large, impersonal resorts to intimate, community-based retreats, travellers are increasingly drawn to the charm of...
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How to Rebuild Your Self-Confidence after a 3-in-1 Life Transition
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. — E. ROOSEVELT You’re at the top of your game—accomplished, respected, and seemingly invincible. Then, in a blink, life decides to play its favourite party trick: pulling the rug out...
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Why I host Walking and Writing Retreats
on the Camino de Santiago de Compostela So, I'm going to have to spill the beans—I'm absolutely head over heels in love with writing non-fiction. I devoured self-help books in my tender youth, and now I write them. There's just...
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10 Limiting Beliefs Holding You Back from living a Meaningful, Fulfilling, Purposeful Life
and a 10-Step Guide to Shatter These Ingrained and Destructive Beliefs Introduction You are gradually checking every box on the so-called “success” checklist—you are building the empire, earning respect, and amassing wealth. From the outside, it looks like you’re successful....
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When Success Isn’t Enough: Why Accomplished Professionals Walk the Camino
Introduction Imagine this: You’ve built an empire. You’ve crushed every milestone, scaled the career ladder with the grace of a seasoned mountaineer, and acquired the kind of success that most people only dream about. Your calendar is a masterpiece of...
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How Imposter Syndrome Limits Our Ability to Adapt to Major Life Changes
The Silent Saboteur of Change 1. Introduction A couple of years ago, I had a client who, by every conventional measure, had won the game of life. Let’s call him James. James had built a career that most people could...
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The Money vs Meaning Dilemma: Finding Your Path in a Profit-Driven World
One purple-blue Monday morning, David asked his mentor, "How do I know I'm on the right path?" His mentor answered, "Hmmm. I think there are a few key aspects to consider: Start by examining how your current path aligns with...
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Patience: The Catalyst for Innovation
“But patience can’t be acquired overnight. It’s just like building up a muscle. Every day you need to work on it, to push its limits.” —Eknath Easwaran From my "Patience and Perseverance Quotes" article I have diligently been working on...
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From Emotional Poverty to Emotional Prosperity
Practical steps to replenish your inner reserves Emotional poverty isn’t always obvious. You might be keeping up with responsibilities, maintaining appearances, and pushing through each day—yet inside, you feel drained, disconnected, or stuck in survival mode. Just like financial poverty,...
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The Art of Meaningful Networking: Building Authentic Relationships in a Transactional World
I. Introduction Picture this: a prestigious industry gala, a sea of impeccably tailored suits, and the unmistakable clink of champagne glasses. Conversations are polished, LinkedIn profiles are exchanged like trading cards, and yet, something is missing. Beneath the surface-level pleasantries...
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You Are Not Your Past—But Your Story Shapes Your Future
How Life Story Coaching Helps You Own Your Past and Design Your Future Introduction Emma, a longtime friend, once confessed over a cup of coffee that she felt like a character in a poorly written novel—one filled with endless plot...
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A Legacy That Lasts: Creating Impact Through Everyday Choices
Strategies to Inspire and Leave a Lasting Impression Introduction Picture this: Sarah Lowe, one of Silicon Valley's most celebrated tech executives, was standing at her dining room window on a Sunday morning, coffee in hand, staring at the gleaming "CEO...
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How to Declutter Your Mind and Reclaim Your Focus
Proven Strategies for Peak Performance and Productivity Introduction A few years ago, a highly accomplished executive—let’s call him James—came to me in a state of complete mental exhaustion, desperately needing to declutter his mind. From the outside, he had it...
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A Valentine’s Day Revolution
Break free from external expectations and embrace your own worth this Valentine's Day I. Introduction Let’s start with a confession: I once bought myself a bouquet of roses on Valentine’s Day and told the cashier they were from a “secret...
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Love speaks Many Languages: A Guide to a more Inclusive Valentine’s Day Celebrations
Moving beyond traditional boundaries to honour all forms of connection Introduction Ah, Valentine’s Day. The one day a year when love is measured in overpriced floral arrangements, awkwardly extravagant priced dinners, and enough red and pink decor to make you...
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What is Compassion Fatigue?
How do we know if we have it and how do we recognise it in others? You know that feeling when your phone battery drops to 1%, and you're desperately searching for a charger? That's kind of how compassion fatigue...
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10 Barriers to Building More Meaningful Connections
Breaking Down the Walls That Keep Us Apart Introduction In our hyperconnected world, it's ironic that genuine human connection feels more elusive than ever. As someone who's spent years navigating the delicate balance between professional success and personal fulfilment, I've...
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Are Vision Boards Outdated? Introducing the virtual 3D Manifestation Method
Have you ever stared at a neatly arranged vision board and wondered, “Is this really all there is?” I mean, don’t get me wrong—those colourful collages of dreams and ambitions have their charm. But if you’re a high achiever with...
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Why Manifestation Works for Some But Not for You
The Brutal Truth About Energy and Identity Introduction Have you ever followed the “just believe and receive” mantra only to find yourself disappointed and empty-handed? I have spent years delving deep into the realms of energy and identity to uncover...
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How to Make Room for New Beginnings
Learn the Lessons, Celebrate the Victories, and Let Go of the Past Introduction: The Weight of Yesterday Life is a series of transitions. Some new beginnings we welcome with open arms—new jobs, relationships, and opportunities. Others catch us off guard—loss,...
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Financial Independance at 50
Case Study 31909 "Hey there, lovely people! I’m Marlene—a 54-year-old renegade who, not too long ago, found herself staring down the barrel of financial dependence and thinking, “Enough is enough!” Today, I’m excited (and a tad nervous) to share my...
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Introverts Are Especially Prone to Burnout
Burnout is a Boundary Issue: not a Work-Ethics Issue I. Introduction Have you ever been praised for being the one who “just gets things done” without fuss, only to find yourself drowning in expectations you can never meet? If so,...
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Coping with an Empty Nest
Case Study 21966 "Hello and welcome to my little corner of the internet. I’m Diane, a not-so-young mom in my fifties who’s been on a wild roller coaster ride over the past few years—specifically, the ride called “the Empty Nest.”...
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