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Christmas Calendar Countdown – 9 days to Christmas!
Theme: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships Building Bridges Over Distance Distance doesn’t have to weaken friendships. In fact, it can often make them stronger if both parties are willing to invest time and effort. The holiday season is the perfect...
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Stop Using Your Energy to Worry
Use It to Create, Connect, Learn, Grow, Glow, and Heal Hey, you. Yes, you. The one sitting there, on the orange coach, replaying that awkward conversation in your head for the fifth time today. Or maybe you’re stressing about the...
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Why Do You NEED A Narrative Identity?
Change Your Narrative Identity, Change Your Life Have you ever stopped to think about the story you tell yourself about your life? Not the one you share at parties or job interviews—the polished, edited self-promotional version—but the one that runs...
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Christmas Calendar Countdown – less than 10 days to Christmas!
Theme: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships The Gift of Presence In a world filled with distractions, one of the most meaningful gifts you can offer a friend is your full presence. Being present isn’t about doing or saying the “right”...
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It’s Time to Leave it All behind in 2024
2025: A Year of Possibilities As we approach the start of 2025, I am reviewing 2024—the good, the middling and the downright disastrous. It has been a year of stratospheric highs and mind-scrambling lows. Why is it that the struggles,...
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Christmas Calendar Countdown
Theme: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships Creating Space for New Connections Friendships often grow in unexpected ways when we create space for them. Life transitions may feel isolating, but they also provide opportunities to connect with people who resonate with...
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Emotional Safety: Is It Essential In Friendships?
How to create and nurture emotionally secure Friendships I came across this quote the other day, by Daniell Koepke, and it hit me right between the eyes: “My love language is safety. And feeling emotionally safe means collecting evidence that...
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Christmas Countdown Calendar
Theme: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships Friends Who Light Your Path During challenging times, friends often serve as our guiding lights. They may not have all the answers, but their presence helps us find our way. This holiday season, take...
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Friends Who Know When To Be Silent
Because Sometimes, Croissants and an Orange Couch Are All You Need Good friends get it. They know when to just be there. No unsolicited pep talks, no half-baked solutions wrapped in Instagram wisdom—just your quiet, steady presence. Because sometimes you...
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Release Your Inner Wolf
How to Turn Stress into Your Superpower The forest was alive with whispers. Frosted leaves crackled underfoot as the wolf padded silently through the underbrush, his silver coat blending seamlessly into the winter's dim palette. The air hung heavy with...
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Christmas Calendar Countdown Day 13
The Joy of Shared Traditions Traditions carry a special kind of magic. They ground us in moments of joy and connection, and when shared with friends, they become even more meaningful. Whether it’s decorating a tree, baking cookies, or watching...
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A Concert, a Conversation, and an unconventional Friendship
Les Amis de l'Abbaye de Flaran The theme of my Christmas Calendar Countdown this year is "Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships." Yesterday, I was at a meeting of the board of the Amis de l'Abbaye de Flaran (Friends of the...
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Christmas Calendar Countdown Day 14
The Gift of Forgiveness Friendships aren’t always perfect, and misunderstandings can create distance. But the holiday season is a time for healing. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting or condoning—it means freeing yourself from resentment and opening the door for connection. Think...
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Christmas Calendar Countdown Day 15
The Magic of Shared Laughter Laughter is one of the quickest ways to strengthen friendships. In the midst of life’s challenges, a shared joke or a moment of silliness can lighten the load and bring you closer to your friends....
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Your Life in Transition: A DIY Toolbox for Reinventing Yourself
Reimagine, Redesign, Reconstruct: The Ultimate Guide to Life Transitions What we need for life transitions, aka major life changes, like for building IKEA furniture, is a manual, preferably with cryptic diagrams that don't make you doubt your intelligence, and leave...
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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 16
The: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships Rekindling Old Connections The holiday season is the perfect time to reconnect with old friends. Life transitions often pull us in different directions, but that doesn’t mean the bond is lost. Sometimes, reaching out...
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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 17
The: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships The Strength to Say No Friendship also means setting boundaries to protect your energy, especially during challenging life transitions. It’s okay to say no to invitations or expectations that don’t align with your well-being....
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Breaking Free: Recognising and Escaping Toxic Friendships
How Toxic Friendships Make Burnout Worse Let’s face it: relationships are like plants. Some thrive with a little neglect (looking at you, cactus friendships), while others wilt the second you forget to water them. But when life hands you burnout...
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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 18
Theme: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships Friends as Chosen Family The holidays can highlight the importance of family, but for some, traditional family relationships may feel strained or distant. This is where friends can become your chosen family—a group of...
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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 19
Giving Without Expectations The holidays remind us of the joy of giving, but sometimes, we hesitate to give in friendships because we’re afraid it won’t be reciprocated. However, true generosity in friendships isn’t about keeping score; it’s about showing care...
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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 20
Theme: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships Embracing Quiet Moments Together In a season often marked by busy schedules and loud celebrations, there’s something beautifully grounding about quiet moments shared with a friend. Sometimes, the best connections don’t need words. Think...
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The Courageous Entrepreneur: How to Face Challenges Head-On
Explore the mindset shifts that empower entrepreneurs to confront obstacles with confidence. Definition of Entrepreneurial Courage If you are thinking about leaving the corporate world and starting a profitable business, you are going to need wheelbarrows full of courage. Ask...
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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 21
Theme: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships Gratitude Strengthens Bonds Friendships are like gardens—they flourish with care and attention. And one of the simplest yet most powerful ways to nurture them is through gratitude. Think about the friends who have supported...
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Silent Superheroes: Why We All Need Introverted Friends
The Surprising Benefits of Befriending an Introvert Introduction As I have several introverted friends (and I am an introvert, or a covert-introvert, myself, ) I have discovered that introverts can provide invaluable support during life transitions. We excel at providing...
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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 22
Nurturing New Friendships The thought of building new friendships during a life transition can be intimidating. But this season of warmth and connection offers the perfect backdrop to meet new people who might bring unexpected joy into your life. Christmas...
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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 23
Reaching Out Without Fear Life transitions can feel isolating, especially during the holiday season when everything seems to revolve around joy and togetherness. But even in the darkest times, we don’t have to face challenges alone. True friends want to...
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Christmas Countdown Calendar Day 24
A Season for Connection The holiday season is here, and for many, it can feel bittersweet—especially if you're navigating a major life transition. Christmas often brings reminders of what has changed, but it also offers an opportunity to embrace something...
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Your Friendship Manifesto: Making Friends and Maintaining Friendships
In recent years, the world has been grappling with an increasingly critical social health crisis: the loneliness epidemic. The COVID-19 pandemic dramatically accelerated this trend, with social isolation and digital communication replacing meaningful human connections. This loneliness epidemic underscores the...
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How Susan’s Short and Simple Vision Statement Helped Her Cope with Uncertainty
“All great things begin with a vision… a dream… I’ve always believed that success comes from not letting your eyes stray from that target. Anyone who wants to achieve a dream must stay focused, strong, and steady.” Estee Lauder It's...
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Why I Stopped Working Harder and How I Started Working Smarter
It's not the load that breaks you down. It's the way you carry it. - Lena Horne At least once a year I revisit the concept of "working smarter, not harder." Why? Because I quickly forget. I forget that working harder...
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