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The Hardworking Achiever’s Resilience Toolkit

The Hardworking Achiever’s Resilience Toolkit

24 Simple Practices for Building Resilience Introduction Resilience is basically the difference between people who get knocked down and stay down versus those who dust their resilience toolkit off, get back up and keep going. Think about it - we...
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“Why do I wake up exhausted after 8 hours of sleep?”

“Why do I wake up exhausted after 8 hours of sleep?”

I hear this constantly from executives: "I sleep, but I never feel restored. It's like my brain is still running flat out even while I'm in bed." Rachel, a Chief Marketing Officer, described it perfectly: "I go to sleep thinking...
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Book Review: “The Nature Fix” by Florence Williams

Book Review: “The Nature Fix” by Florence Williams

Why Nature Makes Us Happier, Healthier, and More Creative I’ve always believed in supporting other authors-especially non-fiction authors-and one of the ways I do that is by sharing book reviews. I focus on the books that have truly shaped how...
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How to Recover From Burnout Forever

How to Recover From Burnout Forever

Can Joining a Range of Activities, Interests and Community Groups Make You Happier, Healthier and reveal How To Recover From Burnout? Quick Take: Your LinkedIn network might be impressive, but when did you last laugh until your sides hurt with...
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Can Music Help You Prepare for Surgery?

Can Music Help You Prepare for Surgery?

#Operation Optimism: A 7-Day Mindset Makeover Before Surgery Part 3 Surgery Less Stressful Meet Sarah, a 58-year-old teacher who was scheduled for major abdominal surgery last spring. Like most of us facing the operating table, she was terrified. Her blood...
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FAQ “How do I stop work stress from spilling into my family life?”

FAQ “How do I stop work stress from spilling into my family life?”

Executives often give their best to their work — and their leftovers to their family. I hear this all the time from executives I work with: "By the time I get home, I'm drained. My team gets my best. My...
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Action is the Antidote to Anxiety: A Doctor’s Guide to Breaking Free from Paralysis

Action is the Antidote to Anxiety: A Doctor’s Guide to Breaking Free from Paralysis

Summary Anxiety loves a stationary target. While our minds spiral into catastrophic thinking, our bodies remain frozen – and therein lies the trap. Action, however small, disrupts anxiety's stranglehold by engaging our physiology, shifting our focus, and proving that we're...
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Emotional Regulation: Are You an Emotionally Regulated Adult?

Emotional Regulation: Are You an Emotionally Regulated Adult?

Summary: If you are an emotionally regulated adult, you don't explode in meetings, implode over spilt coffee, or need wine to "decompress" from Tuesday. Emotionally regulated adults have cracked the code that eludes most hardworking professionals: feeling all the feelings...
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Would Couples Benefit from Going on a Couples Hiking Retreat?

Would Couples Benefit from Going on a Couples Hiking Retreat?

The Short Answer: Yes, But Pack More Than Just Your Boots Sometimes the best relationship advice comes not from a therapist's couch, but from attending a couples hiking retreat, walking a muddy trail where your partner's true character emerges—usually when...
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The Manifestation Trap: Why Your Inner Work Isn’t Working

The Manifestation Trap: Why Your Inner Work Isn’t Working

Summary: You've meditated your way to enlightenment, manifested abundance until your vision board caught fire, and inner-worked yourself into a therapeutic coma. So why are you still stuck in the same job, the same relationship patterns, and the same bank...
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Enabling or Empowering: The Difference

Enabling or Empowering: The Difference

Quick Summary Are you enabling or empowering those around you? To Enable someone is to hand them a fish. To Empower someone is teaching them to fish, then helping them build their own fishing boat empire. One creates dependency; the...
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How To Manage Stress During A Serious Misunderstanding

How To Manage Stress During A Serious Misunderstanding

This article highlights a woman's extraordinary professionalism, memory, and poise under intense pressure. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=300t2DS3VdQ What is going on here? This clip shows the moment Maria João Pires realises that she’s prepared the wrong concerto, and then how she seamlessly switches...
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“Settling” Is Actually Self-Abuse in Disguise

“Settling” Is Actually Self-Abuse in Disguise

There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living. Nelson Mandela In Short Here's the uncomfortable truth wrapped in a comfortable sweater: That...
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We Manifest What We Think We’re Worth

We Manifest What We Think We’re Worth

The TL;DR That Might Save Your Life Your self-worth is your life's GPS—and most of us are navigating with a broken compass. We manifest what we think we're worth: we don't attract what we want, we magnetise what we believe...
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Time Does NOT Heal All Wounds

Time Does NOT Heal All Wounds

Summary Time isn't a magical bandage – it's more like that drawer where we stuff broken things, hoping they'll somehow fix themselves. Spoiler alert: they don't. While time can dull the sharp edges of pain, it takes intentional work, not...
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Is It Healthy to Distract Yourself From Stress?

Is It Healthy to Distract Yourself From Stress?

The Sharp Summary Distraction from stress is like chocolate cake for breakfast – deliciously tempting, occasionally necessary, but hardly a sustainable life strategy. While temporarily dodging life's curveballs might give your nervous system a breather, chronic avoidance turns you into...
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Everything Happens for a Reason – Or Does It?

Everything Happens for a Reason – Or Does It?

Quick Summary Life's most persistent myth meets reality's messiest truths. We'll explore whether there is a grand plan or if we're just really good at connecting dots that don't exist. Spoiler: both answers might be right, and that's the point....
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Rediscover Your Natural Rhythm

Rediscover Your Natural Rhythm

A Camino de Santiago Walking Retreat for Stress Relief In an era where burnout affects approximately 70% of professionals annually, finding effective stress management solutions has never been more critical. This retreat in southwest France's sun-blessed Gascony region offers a...
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I Am Not Your Therapist

I Am Not Your Therapist

In Short Ever heard, "I am not your therapist" on a retreat? Not all retreat hosts are therapists. They can be, with all the qualifications needed behind their names, but many are not. I do have the qualifications, but therapy...
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Ever Thought About Hosting a Retreat at Home?

Ever Thought About Hosting a Retreat at Home?

Quick Summary Hosting a retreat at home sounds easy – intimate gatherings, no venue rental fees, complete creative control. But before you transform your living room into a meditation sanctuary, consider the hidden challenges: blurred professional boundaries, neighbourly relations, insurance...
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The Kingdom of Eternal Night

The Kingdom of Eternal Night

We have another Wordweavers meeting (one of my two writing groups) today and the theme that we have to write a 1000-word story about is "Black." Both reading and writing have long been effective stress management strategies for me, so...
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Hosting Retreats as a Wounded Healer

Hosting Retreats as a Wounded Healer

Summary: The Paradox of Healing Others While Healing Yourself Hosting retreats as a wounded healer isn't just beneficial—it's transformative. For the host, it offers personal growth and professional empowerment, and the profound joy of witnessing transformation. For participants, wounded healers...
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The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown

The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown

An Unconventional Book Review I’ve always believed in lifting other writers up—and one of the ways I do that is by sharing book reviews. I focus on the books that have truly shaped how I live, work, and support people...
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5 Common Time Management Mistakes That Are Secretly Sabotaging Your Peace of Mind

5 Common Time Management Mistakes That Are Secretly Sabotaging Your Peace of Mind

Quick Summary Tackling time management mistakes isn't about squeezing yet more into your already busy day—it's about creating space for what matters. This article explores five critical mistakes that transform productivity systems into stress machines: the multitasking myth, perfectionist planning,...
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Why Understanding Why You’re in the Room is More Important Than Being the Smartest One in It

Why Understanding Why You’re in the Room is More Important Than Being the Smartest One in It

Summary In our achievement-obsessed culture, we're conditioned to believe that being the smartest person in the room equals success. But here's the uncomfortable truth: intelligence without purpose is like a Ferrari without a destination—impressive, but ultimately pointless. Understanding why you're...
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The Great Retreat Debate: Best Retreat- Home or Hotel?

The Great Retreat Debate: Best Retreat- Home or Hotel?

Quick Summary Choosing your best retreat: a hotel/resort retreat or a home-hosted retreat? Hotels offer polished professionalism, extensive amenities, and worry-free logistics, while home retreats provide intimate connections, personalised attention, home-cooked meals, and authentic experiences at a fraction of the...
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Solo Female Travel to southwest France

Solo Female Travel to southwest France

A Woman's Guide to Travelling Confidently to a Camino de Santiago Walking Retreat Quick Summary Solo female travel to a Camino de Santiago walking retreat in Southwest France is easier than you think. This guide shows you exactly how to...
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Your First Solo Travel Adventure: A Woman’s Guide to Travelling the World with Confidence

Your First Solo Travel Adventure: A Woman’s Guide to Travelling the World with Confidence

Quick Summary Solo travel isn't just about seeing new places—it's about discovering who you are when nobody's watching. This guide will help first-time solo female travellers move from fear to freedom, offering practical tips, emotional support, and the confidence-building tools...
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Self-sabotage in Slow Motion

Self-sabotage in Slow Motion

Summary High performance without recovery isn't sustainable—it's self-sabotage in slow motion. This article explores why our obsession with constant productivity is actually undermining our long-term success, health, and happiness. Through the compelling story of Lawrence Edgar, a high-achieving executive who...
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If Exhaustion is your Default Setting…

If Exhaustion is your Default Setting…

That’s not ambition. That’s your body begging for a reboot. Summary We've been sold a lie about exhaustion. Society tells us that bone-deep tiredness is a badge of honour, proof of our dedication and ambition. But what if that isn't...
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